What you can do is decide how to respond to those events and obviously prepare yourself as best you can beforehand.
When you go through a stressful situation and the position you're in is weak You have 2 choices:
Daydream that things could have been better
Enjoy it and think "Imagine the stories I'll have after this whole thing is over"
In every scenario there's something positive. You become indestructible once you're able to take every negative circumstance and turn it around into something that benefits you 50 Cent got shot 9 times, built a career by using this event A normal person would've remained traumatised all his life after something similarš¤£ Michael Franzese, the former crime boss, sat in prison for over a decade He came back and became world wide famous in his late 60's. Made millions by utilising his knowledge and the wisdom that he gained while being detained Learn to TURN SHIT INTO SUGAR and no one can break you.
Every negative situation contains the possibility for something positive, an opportunity. It is how you look at it that matters. Your lack of resources can be an advantage, forcing you to be more inventive with the little that you have. Losing a battle can allow you to frame yourself as the sympathetic underdog.
Do not let fears make you wait for a better moment or become conservative. If there are circumstances you cannot control, make the best of them. It is the ultimate alchemy to transform all such negatives into advantages and power.
It's the ulitmate flex to overcome the "impossible" and prove your doubter's wrong. This is how you must think. You must salivate at the idea of glory.
You must learn to turn lemons into lemonade. Hard times make strong characters. Easy times make weak characters.
Use whatever comes at you to level up and benefit you and yours.
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